![]() As long as their behavior doesn’t change, you’re always going to question their commitment and worry about when they’re going to leave. You become racked with anxietyĬhasing someone who’s not that into you will always leave you feeling insecure about the connection. But ladies, you shouldn’t chase the wrong guys, either. Even unintentionally, some women leave guys confused and frustrated, and I want to make sure men maintain a healthy mindset. Here are some of the consequences when you chase someone who doesn’t respect you…ĭisclaimer: In the following, I’m giving examples of situations I’ve heard for years. When you don’t set boundaries and have standards for yourself, you do more damage to yourself than you realize. What you fail to realize is you’ve already lost. you want to prove to yourself that you can win her over, you don’t want to give up the sex, or you still convince yourself you like her despite her flaws.) That’s not the answer you wanted, so you justify all the reasons why you should keep fighting for her. I tell you that you deserve someone who’s into you from the beginning and it’s time to move on. ![]() You ask me, “How do I get her to get to really like me?” She blows you off to hang out with other people.Īll you want is for this girl to be as excited about you as you are about her. She still seems disengaged and doesn’t ask you about yourself. Her lack of respect never seems to change. Maybe you hook up a few times.ĭespite that, she still doesn’t show any signs of investing in you or trying to communicate better. Plus, it feels nice to get some attention.Įventually, you get a date with her. You have too much pride to give up and maybe you haven’t had an opportunity like this in a while. She never apologizes or offers a better time.īut you stick it out. She gives you ambiguous times she’s available and when she does make plans, she often cancels at the last minute. It takes FOREVER to get her out on a date. Sometimes it takes a while for her to reply. You get her number and try to start a conversation. You meet a girl or match with her online. They’re suddenly willing to compromise their values just because there’s a hot girl involved…and those consequences are more devastating than they know. They let those women disrespect their time and put up with a lack of investment. I see this all the time with guys: they find a girl they’re insanely attracted to and throw all reason out the window. This text was added to the website between May 1995 and September 2003.I often write about choosing compatible, high-quality people to date.īut sometimes in that pursuit, you still chase the hard-to-get, uncommunicative, or “crazy” girl because she’s hot…and you want to sleep with her.īut our actions always have consequences. FRE French (Français) (Guy Laffaille), "La femme dure", copyright © 2013, (re)printed on this website with kind permission.ENG English (Emily Ezust), "The aloof woman", copyright ©. ![]() ![]()
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